Competitive and Proud

After what Mr. Urban and I considered the most competitive endeavor of our lives, we finally managed to stick our flag into this beautiful land that we have come to adore and appreciate.

And when I say competitive you might be taking it lightly. But Do Not Do That! Between the two of us, Mr. Urban and I have some experience with instances of adolescence and adult competitiveness, and we consider them a joke next to buying a home in Silicon Valley.

And by the way, if you seem to have judgement about competitiveness as some sort of an inferior trait allow me to enlighten you for a moment.... When something is really good and in small quantity, you and some others may envision that good thing for yourself and your loved ones, and may reach for it, and if you are fair and graceful in your pursuit of it, then I hardly see a problem in that.

As you know I talk, talk, talk.... and so I did through this recent undertaking in our life. Surprisingly or not, I encountered some "How Dare You Dream of Such?!" attitudes or "Why Don't You Just ....". But mostly I encountered heartfelt "Good Luck[s]".

I suppose if you get down to valuations, all of life could be coined as material. No matter where you are, there is so much that your standing could be compared to. Ce La Vie!

So if your desires are true expressions of your soul, I say dream your dreams, be fair, and go forth and compete. May you reach your gold!

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